I am having an affair with my friend that is best’s partner, and then he’s become manipulative. Can I come clean? Couple of years ago I fell so in love with the daddy of my friend that is best’s son or daughter, whom additionally is actually my then-boyfriend’s closest friend. We don’t suggest we had a secret affair for about five months until our partners found out for it to happen, but. From then on, we parted means and led our very own everyday lives up until last February, once we reconnected. Ever since then, we have been seeing each other off and on, and I also’ve separated with my partner. The man i am having an event with continues to be in a relationship with my closest friend though, and she does not understand we are seeing one another once again. The difficulty gets more complex: we feel i am manipulated into an event and can’t move out. Each and every time this guy and I also meet up, he says their relationship with my buddy is absolutely absolutely nothing, they are just together due to their son, and therefore he fundamentally loves me personally and wishes me personally in their life. But he is giving me personally messages that are mixed. As an example, we recently had intercourse and two days later on he celebrated my friend to his anniversary and contains not contacted me since. I will be broken once again, and I also feel just like the smartest thing to accomplish is to allow all events understand the truth. My buddy does not deserve this and neither do I. We have since made a scheduled appointment with a specialist, but otherwise, I do not understand what direction to go. Can I come clean? – Longer Island […]